August 2014... 10 years...
In some ways seems like yesterday. In some ways an eternity ago.
Alana would be 30 years old...
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Date: 01-06-2015
Time: 12:13 PM -0500
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I did not have the pleasure of knowing Alana, however my husband knew her and her parents through John Bowne High School. Although the accident occurred 10 years ago, it remains fresh in my memory. This morning I met Lee and Alana's story unfolded. I can only hope that this unique circumstance brings fond memories to Lee. Alana's memory is still living with the teachers at John Bowne. I reached out to them today and was happy to hear that she touched so many lives.
Im sorry for your loss. Words cant adequately express this type of sorrow. I hope that her memories can comfort you and today you have a little more peace knowing she is remembered fondly by many.
Kelly
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Date: 8/12/2014
Time: 07:08 PM
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I can't believe it's been ten years since I lost my first best friend. Really, she was my second - my grandma was my first. She was a tough chick - riding motorcycles through the streets of Minsk, convincing her dad to let his daughter wear pants and enroll in the Russian Air Force Flight School, walking across the continent to Uzbekistan during the war, and countless other smaller victories like working multiple jobs to make sure her family had enough, and convincing my parents to come to America for a better life. She died a few years before Alana, and, while I still think about her every day, what helped me was to think about what she's doing up in heaven.
For me, my grandma has reunited with my grandpa, who died way before I was born but who she loved forever. They're in heaven sitting on a very comfy couch, maybe with a dog, enjoying each other's company and watching my family via a big fancy tv. My grandma was 79 when she died, and I hope that, in heaven, she's finally able to relax, enjoy herself and stop working so hard.
But Alana's different. She was only 19, we had our whole lives in front of us. Perhaps, when she arrived in heaven, my grandma made room for her and Joe on the big couch. She remembered her from Hebrew School after all, and must've been shocked to see her so soon. I'd imagine the language barrier goes away in heaven, so maybe Alana got to borrow my grandma the way I used to borrow the Berenson family for years when I was growing up.
Maybe, over the next few years, Alana and Joe decided they wanted to expand their family. Maybe they're helping to raise some of the many wonderful babies and children who showed up in heaven way too soon. There's no celestial facebook with pictures of how cute the kids are and what a great job Alana's doing with them. But we down here would expect nothing less. Alana and Joe were comforts to their families, and maybe they're comforting other families down here who can somehow tell that their children are being well taken care of.
But really what I think Alana's doing up there is going to meetings. Not the boring work ones that I go to, but ones in old fashioned saloons with poets, and artists, musicians and philosophers. Sitting around and trying to figure out the meaning of it all. Alana wanted those kinds of answers, and now, she's on her way to figuring it out.
I'm sorry if this is kind of a weird way of thinking about all of this. I used to tease Alana about being such a weirdo, and I wish Alana were around to look at my comments and say "I told you so, you're a total weirdo too"...and a big sap.
Sending my love to the Berenson clan,Rita
Date: 08-11-2014
Time: 10:22 AM -0400
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I was on a train pulling out if Union stationIn DC on way to NYC. I think I was on the phone
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Date: 11/8/2010
Time: 11:27 PM -0400
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You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Hilary and Vincent Albano
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Date: 4/27/2011
Time: 07:40 PM -0400
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For some reason I've been thinking about my Freshman year in John Bowne High School (might be because my brother is getting ready to start H.S. next year) and I have to say I don't remember much from the year and a half I went there. I DO, however, remember Alana since she was one of my closest friends during that time. I decided today to look her up on Facebook because I wanted to talk to her .... I wanted to catch up ... I just wanted to, well I'm not sure why it was so urgent. I found this page instead... I can't even speak. This is just surreal... She's so missed, even years down the road by people who never said goodbye.
Date: 8/10/11
Time: 09:45 PM -0400
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Although I may only post a message once a year, I think about you every day. Love to you and love to your family. , big Lisa
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Date: 12-08-2011
Time: 07:54 PM -0400
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It is difficult to believe that seven years have passed since a freak storm cut short the lives of two wonderful people.
Joe and my son Jon met at Suny, Joe spent time at our house and became part of our family. I am sorry that I never met Alana. Jon said that she was good for Joe and they both cared for each other. My hope is that they are together for ever
Carole A Lieblein
Date: 08-11-2010
Time: 11:28 AM -0400
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I have been thinking about Alana and you more often since her yahrtzeit last week. Love to all
Lisa Mentkow
02-13-2010 11:43 AM
Its been such a long time since i've visited this page but not a day goes by that I dont think of Alana.. Shes been in my thoughts alot these past few days and so I decided to look up the site again and sure enough it was still there. please keep updating with stories and pictures of your family- you are all always in our thoughts and prayers..
Date : 8-10-09 11.09 PM
A day does not go by that I do not think of Alana. You and she are always in the back of my thoughts. Always. Don't think that she is not remembered. I remember her, as do so many others.
Lisa Mentkow
Date: 8-5-09 12.18 AM
Hard to believe it's been five years already. Throughout the year so many things make me think of Alana (and the rest of you) and she will always evoke a smile, and often a tear, as I remember what a beautiful and loving girl she was. She will be in our hearts forever.
Ray Hershbain
Date: 7/21/2009 1.30 PM
I can't believe that it has been almost five years since I had to say goodbye to truly unique friend. I still think about Alana and get especially sad when it rains. I hate that she was taken so soon when she had so much to give this world.
Date: 2/20/2009 2.52 AM
One funny memory of Alana that sticks out was when it was her birthday at high school. It was common for birthday girls to receive balloons from her friends. Usually it was just a few balloons, maybe 10 at most. But I remember Alana walking into class with about 20 balloons! I had never seen someone receive that many balloons. Somebody had even left a balloon for her in the class and seeing this she exclaimed, "Oh no, not another one!" That just goes to show how many people cared about Alana.
Date: 2/20/2009 1.30 AM
Hi, this is Peter and I went to John Bowne with Alana. We were both Aggies and were in the same band class. The video of her goofing off in the band room brings back so much memories (I can't believe I'm in the video as well). That's how I will always remember her; a fun loving girl who never stopped smiling. I was not very close to her, but during the times we spoke she was always very friendly and very funny. I recently found out that another member of our graduating class and fellow Aggie, Charles Seearam, passed away in an unfortunate car accident. To learn that 2 people who you saw every day for 3 years has passed on at such a young age makes you truly appreciate how precious life is. Both of these friends will be my heart forever. Thank you for the opportunity to speaks these words. My deepest condolences goes out to the families of Alana and Joe.
Date: 01-31-2009 10:31 AM
i just received an facebook message from a girl who was alana's aupair when she was a toddler. She didn't know what had happened and said she saw that she was on facebook. i had to tell her what had occured and directed her to this website. A sadness came over me as it does from time to time when i have to tell someone that doesn't know of the tragedy. i think of alana everyday...smiling as i recall memories of her as a baby, toddler, child, adolesent and young woman.
xoxo - aunt hilarie
Date: 02-03-2009 10:25 AM
Dear Lee, dear Bruce
It's such a long time ago when I lived in your house and was taking care of Alana ...
I've never thought, that there will be such a sad reason to get in touch with you again.
After many years I met Hilarie on Facebook again and she told me about this tragic accident. I was very shocked and felt a deep sadness ... even when I didn't know Alana as a Teenager or as the young and beautiful lady that I see on all these pictures. But I spent some time in my life with Alana ... and even it's so long time ago ... I can remember how I played with her an watched TV to learn with her the first words ... she was such a cute little girl.
I can imagine what a hard and terrible time you had and maybe still have. You probably asked yourself again and again, why that had to happen. There is no answer ... the life is simply unfair! Although I am late, I send you my cordial condolence and a lot of strength and confidence.
There's only a few months ago that I was watching the photos from the time I lived with you. I was wondering, what Alana and you two are doing now? I'm glad to see that you are a big family now. This is very nice!
I'm sorry about my English ... it isn't so great anymore. I hope, you understand anyway what I wanted to say with these words.
I would be happy to hear from you ... how you are ...
Greetings and kisses
Ariane
02-05-2009 7:10 PM
I remember the first time I met Alana in John Bowne H.S. she was one of the first people that spoke to me in the cafeteria. She was such a sincere and good-hearted person that I am so grateful for her friendship. I always felt she was such an intelligent person in every one of our classes. I remember I always had to ask her to repeat herself because she was such a fast talker with the most advanced vocabulary.
All I can say that I have never met a person so genuine, kind and intelligent as Alana Berenson.
My prayers go out to Alana & Joe's families...
Alana and Joe you will always be in my heart!
-Celeste A.
12-1-08 12.24am
We just spent Thanksgiving with Lisa and Family. They told us about Alana's website. We remember Alana as a beautiful little girl. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love, Hilary and Vincent Albano
09-26-08 12.38am
I am unsure what it was about last night that suddenly had me randomly crying again over the loss of Alana. For whatever reason her memory was at the for front of my mind and as I fell asleep I heard the phone on my nightstand ring. Checking the caller ID and seeing it wasnt someone calling for me I rolled back over and attempted
to ignore the last of the rings until someone else or the answering service picked up. For some
reason though, even though I have gotten hundreds of calls in the last four years, since then, my
mind went back to that morning and the phone call I had received from Cory, a friend both Alana and
I shared from USY, to tell me what had happened. The sound of his voice that morning rang in my ears
as if I was listening to him all over again, the sadness in his normally cheery voice broke my heart
even before I heard the reason behind it, and I found that I could no longer sleep. Signing online I
looked up this website and started skimming through the content which only served to bring fresh
tears. Scouring my buddy lists in hopes that Sarah would be on even though it was the middle of the
night; I came up horridly short as not many of my friends are as nocturnal as I. In fact no one save
an old friend of mine, who never had the honor to know Alana, was on and I found myself going to her
for comfort. I spent a good portion of the night talking to said friend about how Alana and I first
met, in Encampment. And I remembered with fondness those days in late summer 2001, one memory
standing out above the rest. I dont recall the reason Ryan was in our bunk but indeed as forbidden
as it was for a boy to be in a girls bunk especially when all campers were to be in their bunks for
bedtime, he was for whatever reason with us. We were the oldest girls and because of the way our
bunk was set up we didnt actually have a counselor in our bunk in fact it was just the four of us,
Jenna, Sarah, Alana and I, occupying the bunk that summer, so it was rather odd that on that night
of all nights one of the advisers should come around to check on us. Seeing the approach of the
authority figure we had to think fast and so with lighting fast reflexes we opened the closet door
and Alana shoved Ryan in. To this day I still dont know how we got away with it, but no one was ever
the wiser to the fact we had hidden a boy away in our closet, along with the streamers and balloons
we were going to use to decorate our bunk the next day. I chalk it up to the fact that we were
always the good kids never causing trouble and so no one ever really thought of us as the kind of
kids to get into mischief... I miss Alana very much and to this day I feel a dull ache when I think
of how she was taken away far before she ought to have been but that is nothing compared to the
warmth I feel when I think of the way in which she touched my life.
-Shari Rubenstein-
03:55 PM 10-09-2008
I went to John Bowne high school with Alana and even after 4 years, I still miss her a lot
and I feel that the world has lost one of the most honest, inspiring, and kind young people imaginable.
After meeting thousands of people in college, at work, here and from all over the world as
a student culture ambassador, I can fully appreciate a person like Alana was even more at 22,
though I was grateful for her friendship at 14.
High school was a difficult time for me and Alana always had some sisterly advice for me
since she was 2 years older, encouragement and kind words. I don't think I've ever seen her
complain, be mean spirited, or brood one single time in the years that I knew her while in high
school. There are times when she comes to mind and I thank her for showing me what it mean to be
passionate about life and have a strong spirit. Alana, you are definitely missed...I feel saddened
knowing that I cannot add you on Facebook, chat and tell you about how you were right. Everything
worked out for the better in my life and it was everything I imagined and more. Thanks for being a
friend when I needed it the most.
To the Berenson family as well as Joe's, you are all in my heart.
Danielle
6.57am 11/17/07 It is amazing to see how loved you really were Alana. The only memory I have of you is that of the enchanting young woman at a haven. I believe you are happy, and smiling down on all those who were touched by your life. Though we knew little of one another, I know that I will never forget your smile.
Respectfully, L. Mavrik d.N.
12:30 AM Thursday June 14th 2007.
Hi, my name is Ashraf Rahman, aka Ash. I went to High School with Alana and was in the school band with her (I played the guitar at our graduation along with the rest of the band). We only saw each other at high school and wish that I knew much more about her. She was a good friend; I should say she is on the top of my list of "The best people I have met in my life". My deepest thoughts and sympathy goes to all who were close in heart to Alana and her family.
Almost three years back when I heard about the tragedy from one of our band mates, Ryan, everything had stopped at that moment. It took a few minutes till a drop of tear lead to much more. I did not want to believe what I heard but I could not let it go. That entire day and the Funeral was my first experience, I have lost many relatives before who I didn't know much about but Alana's tragic death was the only one that made me cry and even so I am no where close to understanding the pain of others much closer to her. I will always remember Alana as the smart, charming, optimistic, beautiful, patient, heart bigger than every ones put together, caring, and the one that showed us how to live a life and that life is beautiful. She showed me to be patient, she gave advices that one would remember their entire life. She always gave hugs and she knew when to give those hugs... I miss those hugs. She was not afraid of showing the world who she really was and I admired that most because no words would hurt her... I admired that a lot about her. I still tear because I have not seen her since we graduated High School and I wish I could have seen her more.
Her parents and family must be so proud to have raised an Angel, one of a kind girl. I miss Alana, we all do. I have a picture of us at high school, if you wish to see it please email me .
I also noticed one of the videos of her at her band class... I didn't know I was recorded too but it was nice to see that. Memories of her will be treasured always and I’m glad she was in my life. I’m sure everyone feels that way too. I didn’t know Joe but I’m sure he was as bright as Alana and my sympathy goes towards him as well. She will be in my prayers and my regards to all.
Sincerely
Ash
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It's funny...the picture from Halloween is the one that looks most like Alana as I remember her. A random story--one year at Encampment we were in different bunks. In the middle of the night, a bat got in my bunk and all the girls were freaking out, and the only person they would trust to get rid of the bat was Alana. I ended up sneaking around to her window, easing it open quietly, so as not to wake her counselor, leaning in the window, and waking Alana. She came to my bunk with a broom and got the bat out. I'm not sure really what it was about her that made my bunkmates decide she was the only one who could get rid of the bat. There was something vaguely supernatural about her. A mystery, maybe. One day she found me crying by the lake. I don't even remember what was wrong. She picked up a bit of wood off the ground and handed it to me. She told me, "Put all your bad feelings into this wood. Invest it with all your negativity. Then throw it into the water and forget about it. It will carry your problems away." I never did it, though. I kept that little chunk of wood among my things until I went away to college and my mother threw it away. She was just that special that you wanted to hold on to anything she might have given you, even if it was just a bit of wood she found...This is Sarah Hoberman. I miss her.
This is Daniela Francisco from the College Now Program at Queens College. I just heard today from Lee of Alana and her boyfriend's tragic death. I'm having a difficult time collecting my thoughts and putting them into words. My heart breaks over and over at the thought of Alana having had her life cut short, snatched away really in the blink of an eye, and at the thought of Lee and Bruce, Kayla, Jenna and Max living with a big hole in their hearts. Every semester or so there's a student that has that extra spark that makes her or him stick in my mind more than anyone else...Alana was one of those few...Her eyes deeply calm, steady, yet alive with curiosity; her face brimming with intelligence; her smile sometimes shy, but always reaching out to connect with the other person...Spring 2002, Alana enrolled in Anthropology and Philosophy courses, accepted to Queens College for the fall, but chose to go to SUNY Maritime. I remember Lee and Bruce's surprise at their daughter's choice...I'm thinking now she wouldn't have been the kid with the spark if she hadn't made surprising, unconventional choices for herself. I told other College Now staff about Alana...All of them remember hearing about the tragedy. Joseph Merino, a counselor, is the only one who was here when Alana was one of our students. He remembers hearing the news of the tragedy without connecting the young woman to Alana; he remembers Alana as one of our truly smart students. He says quietly:"This is so sad." This IS so unbearably sad...the irony is that seeing her in my mind's eye, experiencing once again her infectious aliveness, feeling the warmth and goodness of this sparkling young person softens the pain of her loss a little bit and makes me smile for just a moment... Dear Lee and Bruce, Jenna, Max and Kayla, you are in my thoughts and heart, as is Joe's family, as are Alana and Joe,...I wish for you that the moments when memories of your daughter and sister are able to sooth your pain are frequent and become longer and longer. Love, Daniela
Hello, this is Gina. I am a friend of Alana's from John Bowne High school. I knew her thoughout our high school years snd we were good friends. She always had a smile on her face and was very funny. I had a few Ag. classes with her and a few english classes as well. I was always impressed at how smart she was in English..way beyond anyone in the class. She was a fast talker and always said words that no one knew what they meant! She always had a way of just making me smile.
Alana started me on reading Harry Potter. I was in mr washingtons Ag. class and she had the first book in her hands. I asked her how were the books and if they were any good. She began to tell me how great harry potter was and immediately I was hooked. She let me borrow her harry potter book to read. Since then, I am a huge follower of the series. I thank her for that.
Alana and me apparently were both interested in Crew. One day at a crew meet during our freshmen year at college we saw each other. I was on the penn state crew team and she on maritime's. She saw me and called out to me and we were excited and surprised to see each other. She told me she was a coxswain and I told her I rowed starboard. She started to joke that she was crashing boats. Ever since then, I always looked for her at crew meets, but that was the only one i ever got to see her at. Those races just get very busy sometimes.
For some odd reason, Alana one day just started calling me Homie G! I can't remember how it started but it has stuck with me since now. I jokingly call myself Homie G or G-unit and other ppl in college sometimes will do the same.
I just wanted to say, I am so sorry for your loss. Alana was and still is a great and wonderful person with a huge heart and a great sense of humor. I miss her and will never forget her. Try and stay strong.
Alana and Joe were and always will be a very big part of my life. everyone sees Alana as my roommate our second year at maritime. but to me she was soo much more. when we were mugs everyone said that Alana and I were twins, she was the good one, and i was the evil one. We were always together, her parents became like my parents. She was always someone i could go to, and always had a way of taking something bad and showing the silver lining to everyone. She could make you laugh even when you didn't want to. when we were roommates we had our fare share of fights, but always pulled through. I was told this year, that our room was the weirdest one on the deck because her side was dark and gothic, and mine looked more like it belonged in a rave. Joe was like a brother to me, he always looked out for alana and I. I think we spent almost every day of the last two years together. back in pittsbugh we would always go get coffee at the eat'n'park in SQ. hill. at school he was always in my room, especially after alana and him stated to date. He always saw the best of people, and always made time for everyone. I remember my mug year Alana was my support system during the week, and joe took over on the weekends. Joe never saw someone who was below his class as someone who didn't deserve respect. Any mug could go to him for help, and he would help them. When Alana and Joe started to date, i was soo happy for them. They were perfect for each other. When they both started to come out of their shells, i was even more thrilled. Everyone of my roommates became convinced that they were attached at the hip. After he and alana started to date, our room became full. there was always someone spending the night, or just waiting in the room for her to get back from class. I think it made alana feel more at home when our room was full on behalf of all my roommates, our deepest sympathies to the Berensons and the Cheethams i will always remember Alana and Joe as my sister and my big brother, we will all deeply miss them. Anneliese
Hey it's Matt, Joe's old roommate, I was looking at the webpage and I think it looks great. I've had a lot of things on my mind lately, mostly about Joe and Alana. Its with me always and I guess I'm having a much harder time with it now than even right afterwards. I hope that each day is better for you and your family, I know it will be a while before life will be anything close to normal again.
Hi I am that stranger who saw the story on CNN. I went back to Alana's diary and found this page. I can't explain why, but I am moved by your daughter's tragic death. I feel very sorry that she died, especially moreso in reading about what a wonderful human being she was. She was a very radiant young woman. Looking at her photos, I am surprised at how well and how much she lived. I think that is something you should be proud of. Many people longer and more terrible lives. Alana seems to have a beautiful family. You can see her love for her family in the photos. It seems like she was able to travel. She also seemed to have wonderful friends. Her sister said something about treasuring the moment in her eulogy. But, to me, it seems Alana relished in it. You can see it in her soulful expressions. I know what I say probably isn't a drop in the bucket, but I think you should really just be proud. And to the mom, you look like you did a great job. Hold on tight to your girls. You really have so many blessings. Alana is now your angel from above looking over you. She loves you very much and her greatest wish is for your peace and your happiness. You're in my prayers.
My dearest friends: I looked at the memorial and eulogy portions of the site today for the first time. I was looking at the granite stone that maritime has placed in memoriam, paying tribute to Alana and Joe. I cried alot. I was listening to Tori Amos as I was looking at the site. My black cat came and curled under my arm, watching the screen with me. He refused to leave, and now lies curled at my side as I write this. A sign? I can feel Alana's magickal essence. I feel it every time I think of her. I hope one day to pay tribute to her unique and beautiful essence in my own creative way. My beloved Lee: My love is always with you, and with your family: Bruce, Jenna, Kayla and Max. I am forever and always your loving friend, Camilla
For the longest time I have wanted to write about Alana, but the words just wouldn't come, and when they finally did, the tears made my vision too blurry to see what I was typing. Now I can write without crying. In fact I'm sitting here smiling, remembering the amazing girl she was. I think this is because I have finally accepted what happened. I finally realized that it's ok to accept what happened, accepting it doesn't mean she is forgotten. And she will never be forgotten. Alana was a unique person. She touched everyone's lives in some way. She touched mine a little more though. It's probably because we lived together for a year. There is this special bond between roommates, special little quirks you pick up from being together ever day. Things that I haven't even thought to do in over a year and a half are second nature to me now, and she's the only one who would understand. I tried to explain a memory from that year to one of the freshman recently and I realized from their blank stares that Alana is the only one who would remember and laugh at what I was talking about. There are too many memories of her, I wouldn't know where to begin if I was to write them all down. It's through these memories that her spirit lives with me and everyone else who was blessed to know Alana. Bruce, Lee, Jenna, Kayla and Max, you are all in my thoughts and prayers every day. Know that Alana's spirit lives on with all of us, and will, forever. Love Always~Ashleigh
Hello, this is Danielle. I was in band class with Alana for two years, she graduated when I was a sophomore. She was one of the first true friends I made at John Bowne High School. I still have photos and messages she wrote in poetry book. Funny messages that made me laugh long after they were written. In Mr. Szalacsi's band class, here Oboe music folder still bears the saying "Alana Roks" on it. Well, even though it's been almost a year on the...11th of this month I believe, the family is still in my prayers. Alana truly gave meaning to the phrase "live life to its fullest"!!!! And she will always be remembered.
8/14/05
It's just past a year and I realize both how long and short that year has been. I remember this time last year I was freezing in my Physics class not able to concentrate on the teacher staring at the chair that Alana had sat in and feeling so sad. That whole month is just one big blur. I cried for an entire week until I couldn't make any more tears. Well, I just wanted to let you know that I have always thought Joe an honorable and trustworthy man and Alana a vivacious, bright and lovely young woman. I have made it my goal to live my life more fully since we lost them and I believe, well hope that I have achieved that. ~Allison Peck
8/15/05 Hello my name is Julie and I went to highschool with Alana. I met her while taking drama production. I remember how welcoming and friendly her smile was. She was so full of life and was kind to everyone. It isn't fair that she was taken away. Although we lost touch after graduation, she touched my life, and my heart, and will always be in my thoughts.
8/16/05 Its been one year now and I have start writing this comment for almost that amount of time over and over again. I can never completely get through this but I shall write what I can now. I miss them greatly every day and who they were has shaped my life in a way I know no other two people could ever do. They were both caring loving people that always put others before them. Alana was always making people happy even if she herself was not feeling up to par. Joe would give you his shirt off his back if you ask for it. They are the perfect match for one another and where the best two people to spend time with. I don't think I will ever get over the lost of Alana and Joe. they were taken too soon in life. While they now are physically apart I still go out of the way to travel to the Pentagon were (at lest for me I feel) their spirits are together. I have and will cont. to spent many a hours sitting inside the pentagon and on the water at Long Island City remembering them both and hoping they are together and happy. I used to always say when making a toast, "To those that came before us, to those that are here right now and to those that will follow us, You will never be forgotten" this now has taken on a new meaning for me. For it has hit home and I dread the day that I may forget or the memory of them become fuzzy. For as long as I have my memory and am still breathing I shall remember the things we all did, their personalities and their never ending love for their families and friends. I hope everyone is doing better, my thoughts are with you all friends and family. Eric K. Sawinski '04
8/17/05 hi, I first met Alana back in John Bowne during A.P History. she sat right across from me. I remember for our first assignment we had to write a short essay on what we wish to accomplish when we grow up. I remember Alana's essay because she used her quirky humor and wonderful story telling skills. I miss her and I can't believe that she is gone but I know that she is resting in a happy place watching over all of her love ones. -Lucy
9/3/2005 It's Saturday night, raining outside, and I was just surfing through the internet... looking for Alana, a 13 year old girl I know, who died exactly one year ago in Beslan, in Russia. I didn't find her, but met Alana, your Alana instead. Please forgive my presence here, as I am kind of a stranger, but let me just say how much her smile and her personality coming through the pictures touched me. Thank you, Alana! Mauro, Switzerland
9/16/05 Hi It's Tina. I was on the site today making copies of the newspaper articles from last year. Maclynn is doing a report in school on something that has impacted her life, Alana is it. One year and one month later, and we still cannot believe it, or get over the feeling of loss that we have. I can't tell you how many times I visit this site. I only hope that the family gets comfort from this site, and all the people who love and remember Alana do also. I know I feel a certain comfort when I see her pictures. She was one special person, who even though I am an adult, taught me alot. Love, Tina
10/17/05 Hi from the Netherlands. It's dumb, I was looking for Bat Mitzvah pictures for ideas and came upon Alana's through Google picture search, and thus on this site... it didn't seem right not to leave a message. I am sorry for your loss and the death of two beautiful young people with a great life ahead of them...my thoughts will be with you also on the anniversary of your loss as well. Love, Jenny Mendes, Amsterdam Holland
10/18/05 Alana and Joe will always be remembered for the good people that they were. I remember the first time I met Alana, it was one of the first meetings of the Maritime Chorale. She was so happy and open, someone who you knew you could talk to about anything and she'd understand and somehow make it better. I also have good memories of Joe, most involving hanging out on the fantail with Alana and Anna at the end of a work day on cruise. They seemed so happy together that looking at them made me smile. Fair winds and following seas, wherever you are... Love, A R Becker Class of '04
i looked up "nice things" on google images, looking for some kind of wedding present for my sister (dont ask, im really stuck), but i came across this website and had a look. I read a few of the newspaper articles and looked at some pictures. she was very beautiful and i was very saddened reading through the articles. i know i didnt know her at all, but id still like to give my deepest condolenses to her family and friends. i lost my best friend of 13 years when i was 18, 2 years ago, we were crossing a quiet but deadly country road and i dropped my bag and a few things fell out. i stopped to pick it up but she kept walking. she started to laugh at me and i joined in with her. a car came speeding around a bend and hit her. she was killed instantly. i saw it all happen while i still had a smile on my face. it was the single most worst day of my life. ive been going to our colleges student councellor since i lost her. nothing breaks my heart more than seeing other people go through what i went through. Like Alana, my best friend was loving, she was so funny too, and had the kindest heart ive ever known. I hope her friends and family are ok and again, im so sorry for your loss. Ursula -from Ireland
Alana and Joe have been friends of mine for the last couple of years. Alana since my senior year, and Joe since our freshmen year. Always awesome to be around and talk to, I will miss them both. Smurfette will always be a wonderful person to me and will be missed alot. Brett Rauenzahn, '03
This is Irene... I never really knew alana.. I remember the first time i met her though.. when we all went to your house and hung out.. took pictures, played DDR.. and I remember how awesome she was.. She made me feel welcome in your home.. I was really scared to be there but she made me feel comfortable.. i remember just talking with her.. about anything and it was soo easy talking with her.. i wish i met her more.. and saw her more.. I'm sorry and i wish she was here.. then again.. i'm sure we all wish she was here again...
My deepest thoughts of sympathy go out to everyone whos life Alana and joe touched. I cant believe that such bad things could happen to good people and that good people can go so young. Its going to be weird to go to the house and not have Alana there. I feel terrible that i could not attend the funeral but I will visit as soon as i get back from Las Vegas. Amanda (aka. Salamander)
This is Katie...I went to high school with Alana, though I didn't know her that well, I knew her well enough to know that she had a great personality. She had an effervescent personality. She had spunk. The last time I saw her was last winter break. It was loads of fun hanging out together with her...she was the punch girl at senior soirée. wish she didnt have to leave us so soon
This is Brian Frederick. I went to school with Alana and I was with her on occasion, not to mention spent the summer with her right before our freshman year. She was such a great person and never spoke bad of anyone or anything. She was so optimististic and will be missed.
i didn't really know alana but i know she was a good person cause everyone of the berensons that i know are the nicest people i've ever met and im pretty sure she was juss like them... i juss wish the family the best. Angela Liou
Hey. I haven't talked to kayla and the rest of the family, but I'm very sorry that this has happened. Jonathan is doing a lot better and is fighting the pain to learn how to walk again. I didn't know Alana or her bf, but i know kayla and jenna. take care. chris ruffus
I've known Alana since the summer going into 7th Grade in 1996. We were both at North Shore Day Camp. We spoke on occasion for years after that. I finally realized that Alana was going to Maritime when I saw her when we were invited to depart SUNY maritime in 2002, aboard the TSES. She was a great friend, a terrific person, and a person that I would consider my sister. We are all family here, and we lost two extremely well loved and respected members of our family. Alana, i'll miss you. we will all miss you. Brian Brown '06
Being a MUG on cruise really sucks. Its not so bad when you have great upperclassmen to work with. It was a pleasure to get paint from the paint locker from Joe. I would try to talk to him a little while so I wouldn't have to paint so much. It was a pleasure to have Alana tell me what I was doing wrong when it came to doing work. I had the honor of working with her on many work parties. She was also in my summer physics class and it was great seeing someone walk into the class with pajama pants on. Joe and Alana will be missed. Scott Adler
Aug 15 17:45:09 2008
Subject: August
Thinking of you and your family, my feelings for you all are bigger than my words could ever express.
You are in my prayers.
Beth
8/14/08
TO KNOW I HAVE BEEN THINKING ABOUT ALL
OF YOU FOR THE PAST WEEK. MY PRAYERS AND LOVE ARE WITH YOU AS ALWAYS.
ELAINE DWORETZ
8/11/08 A day does not go by that I don't think of you.
You are missed.
- Lisa and family
Date: 7-25-2008
Time: 04:55 PM -0400
Hi, Jon here again. I posted a long while back but I just had to comment. I recently just moved to Rego Park and while I was walking around I stopped and noticed that I was standing next to the memorial center where the service was held. It really got me thinking how I need to take life more seriously and just helped me out on some decisions I need to make. Anyway, I'll always keep her in my thoughts.
4-21-08
Hello to the Berenson family. Joe's Uncle Paul here.
I just finished reading through the web site and it brought back many memories and emotions. This is
a very nice tribute to two great kids that are missed greatly. I think of them always. You are in my
prayers along with Ellie and Tom. Thank you for sharing Alana's birthday last December at A Chorus Line
with my son Paul.
12-1-07
Just wanted you to know I visited and my thoughts are with you today and every day
Lisa & family
12/1/07 Happy Birthday Sweet Girl.
You are always with us and
we love you more than ever
Dad
Hi, My name is Steve and I'm one of Jenna's friends from BBYO. I myself never met Alana however I know how special she was just by seeing how she touched other peoples lives. I know she will be greatly missed and I offer my sincerest condolences to the Berenson family.
Viewed the pictures. Alana looked so beautiful. Our thoughts are there with all of you. We send our love and hugs and kisses. Rhoda and Dad
Eric Yacoub Kenshin been away sorry school time now miss everyone hope to see you all soon
Surfed in from the blogofdeath.com and read about your loss. Please accept my prayers and thoughts on the deaths of these two shining stars. Our world is a less beautiful palce without their presence. Gardenia
There are no words that can help you through the lose of your beautiful child, but there are a lot of people who love you and ready to help anyway possible. Just know that we are with you all. I know I don't prey properly, buy my preyers are with you and Alana. Love, Belle
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter and her friend. I know your heart is breaking. I do understand your pain because I also lost a child, my firstborn of 4 children, my wonderful son, Bobby, on May 2,2001. It leaves us with void, a big hole that will never be filled. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I invite you to join our online support group http://groups.msn.com/ChildLossGreivingwiththefamily We are not professionals, but we can give you a shoulder and help get over some of the difficult days, weeks, months, years ahead.
Sincerely Rean/A Mom Of 4
Dear Lee, Bruce. Jennna, Kyla & Max, Seeing the pictures of Alana & her love, Joe, brought me back to tears again. I can't say I know what you are going through because I can't but I do know my heart hurts for all of you. I just hope that the wonderful memories & love you have shared with Alana will help ease the terrible pain you are feeling. My love is with all of you. Elaine Dworetz
We are in heaven now are souls asleep safe in Gods arms, our love you can keep. We were taken so young but are still with you just look up and you will see the sky is a different blue. Although your tears may fall and your heart may break please dont forget family and friends that it is only the best that God will take. Our new address is heaven, right above the clouds. Its so quite up here so peaceful and clear. Please don't cry for us any longer for we are always near... - Rezzan K. Alanas classmate in John Bowne H.S To the friends and family of Alana and Joe, I just wrote this little poem in memory of Alana and joe because I know how it feels to lose someone close to you and always want to keep in touch somehow. I hope this will help in some way. God will always look out for them. and they will always look out for us.
There will always be a special place in heaven for Alana and Joe and I just wanted to say that there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of them and that I will miss them
Hey, It's takoch. I heard what happend a couple of weeks after it happend, If ihad known about this website sooner, i would have posted sooner. I'm sorry i didn't make it to the memorial. I miss her as much as all of you.
I never met Alana, but if she is anything like her sisters and mother, she was a total sweetheart. The way that Jenna & Kayla talk about her, they make her seem like the greatest person you could have in your life. I want the entire Berenson family to know that my thoughts are forever going to be with them. And always remember only the good die young and we all know Alana was good. The same goes for Joe. They both were able to show the people in their lives the love they deserved, and now, it was their time to go and be together for all eternity.
hi.. im soo sorry
I never had the opportunity to meet Alana. Late last year Matt was at our house for dinner, the conversation turn to Joe and what was he doing. Matt talked about Alana and how positive their relationship was, that she gave him direction. My son Jon said that she was a really nice girl and that Joe seemed very interested in her. Seeing the pictures of them together it is apparent that they cared deeply for each other. If Joe cared for Alana that is all that I need to know. Missed but never forgotten. Carole Lieblein
This is Amy Hirschman, I went to high school with Joe at Winchester Thurston. I can't say enough about what a wonderful and truly kind person he was. My only regret is that I'd kept in better touch with him in the five years since we graduated...I can't help feeling like I could have done something to stop this awful thing from happening if I'd kept in touch...but I know I couldn't. I'm in Pittsburgh, and he was in New York. He was a great support for me when I tried to keep a club going in high school, and he was the only one who showed up, bringing his lunch to spend that period with me. I never met Alana, but I saw the pictures on this site, and she looked like a really fun person I could have identified with, as I am Jewish too. I send my best wishes to the families and I will never forget my friendship with Joe.
My daughter and her boyfriend are Sophmores at the University of Pittsburgh. She si 19 and he is 20.We were on vacation when I heard of your loss. None of us know you but as a mom of a daughter and a 23 year old son I feel for you. Your daughter and her boyfriend sound like lovely people. Memories! They are like jewels in our lives. Treasure them.I know words do not take the pain away or lessen your loss but know you and your family are in our prayers. The Narehood Family from Tipton, PA
I went into the same class at maritime with alana. I remember all the times we studied for classes together b/c we were both MES majors. I had fun going to her house once and of course ordering food or listening to music when we could in her and marshalls room. i met joe last fall around the time they started going out. i will really miss both of you so much. alana you were always there to talk to. Heather O'Neill (was part of class of 2006 before transferring)
I have known Bruce and Lee since before they had kids and with each one the love of the family just seemed to grow. I met Alana only a few times when she came to work with Bruce. What I know is simply this, Alana was and is well loved, and in return she loved well. This tragedy is unspeakable but we are all the richer for Alana's presence, her spirit is a tribute to her family. Beth Robinson
Deepest condolences to the Berenson and Cheetham families. The Gordons.
hello its Jonathan, Stopping by everynow and then to keep reminding me of how much a wonderful person alana is and how great her family is. I will be around so just give a holler if you need anything Jonathan Yacoubenson (who made that up? its the coolest name)
I'm Rezzan. I went to high school with alana. I remember always seeing her in the halls on the way to class and even when she didnt know me she would always make eye contact as if to say "whats up" I remember her as a fun, loving, joyful happy person. It's strange how I found out about this horrible event, through a coworker whos friends with her sister, she asked me if i would cover for her on the day of the funeral and i accepted. She told me the story and i was so sad to hear that something like this would happen to a girl my own age- at that time I had no idea it was alana from John bowne high school. later that week i picked up a paper and read about an accident, and to my shock i read the words" graduate of john bowne high school" and as i looked to the picture i saw alana and joe. I never knew joe, but i recognized alana the moment i glanced at the picture. and now I'm talking to another friend who went to the same school and also knows alana and the whole family. I just cant believe what a small world this is. I wish the 2 families all the strength there is to get by this tragedy, and all of alana and joes friends to keep strong and remember that the kind of person alana was, she would want all of us to be strong and happy. We should all take example from her personality and add a little to our own lives for her. ALANA RIP. I will always remember you. <3 Rezzan
I went to John Bowne with alana and we sorta lost touch when college started. I just recently started talking to Alana again on the internet and phone and it saddens me that we never got to see each other again. All i have are pictures. We were talking about meeting up again over the summer and maybe attending the Ani Difranco concert in November in NYC. I'm really sorry for your loss and miss Alana alot. I didn't know joe but he seemed really nice. ~Alexis Van Pelt
4.01pm August 9th 2007
It is said "TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS". I know that is not true in this instance. I just want you to know that my prayers for your strength & my love are with all of you. Elaine Dworetz
Looked at the update of pictures and read the eulogies. Brings tears and sadness. Our love is always with all of you. Hugs and Kisses. Rhoda and Dad.
I never knew Alana, i wish i had the chance to have met her. I met jenna this year and we became friends, i was very upset when i found out about what happened. I wish you all the best,and lend my support and condolences. Ilana
I am Alana's great aunt (long story) and I share the sadness and shock with the rest of her family and friends. I can still picture her with the two pigtails she wore as a little girl in the synagogue we all went to, and I also remember when we took her, together with my granddaughter Nava, to the Jewish Museum, where they were having an exhibit on Barbie Dolls. Words cannot express my feelings of this great tragedy and I know that the family will remain strong in their great pain. Mildred and Harry Eagelberg
I am Alana's cousin, Nava, but I was always Nava3X (Nava Nava Nava) to Alana. I miss her dearly. Her spirit and beauty will live forever in the wonderful memories that I have of her. I hold them close to my heart. I love you. Your CUZ, Nava Nava Nava
I wish I could have been there to pay my respects. You will always be remembered. -Felipe
ive known Alana and the rest of the berensons since i was in second grade. they became part of my family. ive always thought of alana as that older sister/ role model/ idol. i always wanted to be like her, from her hair to her clothes to her personality. i miss her so much (as i am sure everyone else does). she will always be in mine and my families heart. i will miss you my double mint twin.
I went to John Bowne with Alana, and although i was a creative writing student, all of my friends were the "aggies". I regret losing contact with alana when everyone went there separate ways for college. We recently just started talking again in the Spring of this year. I am terribly sorry for your loss and miss Alana very much. Love, Alexis Van Pelt
I met Alana in 1999 in John Bowne High School, she was one of those amazing people you'll never forget... she had a way of just looking at you when your were sad and making you feel better. She will be greatly missed. My condolences to her family. This was a short poem I wrote when I heard about the news... I remember the time we hugged in the hallway...like a secret waiting to erupt... a disclosed second language to the hand... a priceless moment that will be forever in my heart... REST IN PEACE ALANA!!!!
I never got a chance to really "know" Alana... dont know if i ever would but i did cheer with her at maritime and no matter who was stressing about what on the team she was always smiling.. she never worried if we would mess up or look bad she didnt care she was just there to have fun. Its so amazing how she did probably the most ditziest sport ever yet still kept her amazing individuality.. i always admired her for that but never told her. im sorry.
I didn't know Alana well, but I love her still, and know that she is watching over all of us, as she wanted to save the world.
I don't know what to say, Other than...I love you Alana, and I'll miss you. you touched my life, and I'll never forget you. Shmoo, Rick
I didn't know Alana and Joe, but I know what it's like to lose a friend so young. I'm deeply sorry for your loss. They both seem like such wonderful, vibrant people. Take care. Love some more.
unbelievable web site, for an unbelievable girl, whose loss to us is still unbelievable. I hope that the love that comes pouring form this site helps with the sorrow and pain that all are feeling. The shock still hasn't worn off, and probably never will. Our thoughts and prayers are constantly with the Berenson family, and hope that they continue to gain the strength that they need to continue daily, hourly. Alana was one of the most unique persons that I have ever met. I know my older daughter Faryn admired her most of all, and always wanted to emulate her, she even called her "her double mint twin". I am so pleased that my family had the pleasure to meet Joe, as he was so important to Alana. Our hearts will never be the same, knowing Alana, and now missing her. She will always be in our hearts. Love Tina and the Kornreich Family
im sorry for your loss, your family is in my prayers<3 --Ayelet
i much luv and support and prayers to the berenson family love always Marina
Hi, Thinking about all of you and sending our love. Talk to you soon. Hugs and kisses, Rhoda and Dad.
I lost my best friend of 10 years and my boyfriend of 1, 5 months ago. (They are both the same person) I know how much it hurts to have lost someone so dear and although life still goes on there's always something missing. But i have a prayer that has helped and touched me so maybe it can help someone else. I recite it everyday and believe that it can someday become easy for me to accept. It's The Serenity Prayer... God grant me the serenity to ACCEPT the things I CANNOT change, COURAGE to change the things I CAN, and WISDOM to KNOW the difference. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you as well as Alana and Joe.
So sorry for your loss--so young to leave so soon. May God bless you. May your friends be channels of God's love by their physical presence and caring. May you find comfort in love sent from strangers, such as myself. Hang in there--you will see her again.
My brother, Eric Chin, had attended John Bowne High School with Alana---I never knew her personally, but I attend HS with Alana's cousin Lisa..My brother and I would both like to send our sympathy to all of Alana's family and friends. -Evelyn Chin
I didn't know either Alana or Joe, I found her journal through the LJRemembers community, .It was LJrs4eternity. They both sound like they were beautiful people. Heaven has acquired 2 more angels. God Bless. ~*~Jessica Manus~*~ LJ-sunniedaze
Alana was taken from us too early. She made any place she was a better place just by being there. I just came across a letter I wrote to her my MUG year and it made me remember how special she really was and how terribly I miss her. You never know what you had until it's gone. Alana and her family will be in my prayers forever. Michael Gallagher: Class of 2006 SUNY Maritime
Hi everyone, I know i did not know Alana very well and i only met her a few times, but lisa is my best friend and i feel everything that she is. I am so sorry. From what i know of alana she was a very special person and she will be missed. sincerely Kasey Parente
It's allison peck, I didn't really get to know Alana all that well. She was the girl who lived in the rack above me and the clarinet player who marched a few rows behind me. She was also much more than that. In a cynical world that everyone judges and complains she was the rare jewel that shined out from the crowd and said 'damn it I'm gonna be me and be happy for it'. She was so full of life and I admired and respected her for that so much. I was in a meeting for squadleaders and IDO's when the captain came down to deliver the horrible news. I didn't even think, there was such a horrible pain in me. I couldn't speek or move until I had to run out of the room to help a friend who was so much in grief. I unfortunately didn't get to attend the funerals because I was in the hospital. My pains are unbearable, but I'm sure not as unbearable as the family's. My words are weak to give ease. I wish that there was something I could do...but there is nothing. Once again my sympathies
Hi, My name is John Santiago class of '07. I got to Know Joe and Alana mostly through John Robertson and Paul Memoli. We would spend hours just hanging out on the fantail almost every night of cruise. They were such a wonderful couple. When my freind Andrew Hales and I saw those little smurf figures in Germany we knew we just had to get them for Joe and Alana. We each paid for one of them. Due to his not feeling well Hales was not able to be on deck when I gave the figures to them. The look on Alana face was wonderful and made me happy to have given them a smile. It turns out Alana had seen the bride but could not find the groom so she didn't get it though she wanted to. By getting them the figures I was able to get her something she wanted without even realizing. I felt so happy for them. It is so sad to have them gone. I miss them both very much. My deepest condolences to both families in this their time of sorrow.
i really miss joe and alana. the last time i got to see them was just after the ship show. a number of us went back to the fan tail and stood around singing sea chantys. it was one of my best memories from cruise before all of this happened. now it means even more to me. i didn't even get to say good night because i had watch later that night and had to get some sleep. i really wish i had. they both really helped me get through two of the hardest months of my life. andrew hales
Dear Families of Joe and Alana, My heart and prayers go out to you. I know its not easy, and maybe right now it makes no sense at all, but know in your heart that when God takes the young its because they're angels and they're only here on loan. The love and laughter you must have received raising her is so evident in their pictures. Know in your heart that they're in a better place and together. I wish you light and love Lynda Gillaspie
hi its maclynn. i also really miss alana. if you really think about it the stars are like alana they allways shine and are always bright just like alana was. when i saw her with joe she just shined more and had a lot more confidence. i miss alana. my love is with all of the berensons.
it's Joe, I am terribly sorry about your sister. You, your mom and your sisters are all very nice and awesome people, and I really feel terrible about what happened. I hope (and am pretty sure) that you and your family will remember your sister well and that you'll all get through this. Knowing how loving your family is, I have no doubt that everyone will comfort each other to any extent, but until the grieving is over, just remember all the awesome things about your sister and the time that you spent with her. Remembering all the good times is the most important thing you can do and I'm sure Alana would appreciate it, she'd rather see you smile while thinking about her instead of be upset. If you ever want to talk I'll be around for you. Make sure you remember all the good things, because we'll all just be memories eventually after all.-
sorrow sweeps the lives of many
life has been undone
no one knows why people die so young
g-d has his reasons thats what they say
who cares g-d why take someone so innocent and so before her prime
a family weeps
friends cry in sorrow
the world keeps turning but time stands still
an angel arises from the heavens taking her soul to nirvana
while we cry she looks down upon us tearing
she is put to rest forever with someone she loved
alana we all loved you, and you will never be forgotten
i dont know what to say and im sorry's get old but... im sorry I want to tell you that my family and all of college point sends its sympathy, i want you to know that when people around here heard what happened, even tho they didnt know your sister you or your family, the whole town was saddened and even the most immature kids i know took what happened seriously and always had and will have the deepest sympathy for you and your family as well as joe's family... us college point people dont count for much but i wanted you to know that your sister and your family are in the prayers of those of us who pray and in the minds and hearts of everyone else... I hope that helps in some way, me and the other college point rfk kids are coming today cus we love you
I met Alana 2 or 3 times, and she was just so incredibly sweet and nice and i can't even explain. She was so lucky to have such a supportive and close-knit family. Her friends sound amazing and her boyfriend Joe is just simply indescribable. Both were so lucky to have each other. I don't think a better boyfriend could be asked for
Your family and Joe's family will be in my prayers, and i wish you all the best of luck in everything. I know you'll be strong about it, Kayla is one of the strongest people i have ever met...Susan<![if !supportLineBreakNewLine]><![endif]>
Cruise is a hard time.. and if you are going through a hard time sometimes people feed off that. Well I was really going through a hard time on cruise and sometimes i didn't know where to turn to. I remember one time I was at the point where I wanted to go home becasue i didn't know what to deal with this stuff anymore and I was at the point where I was almost crying and I remember that i was alone on the stern smoking and Joe and Alana came to me now this must of been the second time that i actually met them but I told them my problems and while i was talking to Joe Alana just gave me a hug because she said that I looked like i needed it and this might sound weird but that really cheered me up and i became friends with them and and we hung out especially in Poland :-) Before i go I just want to say that I pray for you guys every day and i know that there is a special place in heaven for the both of you
I don't know if your reading these anymore or if these comments had any meaning in the first place but they're here and so am I. I know that were i in your place i couldn't take it and i know you're a strong person who when the unfortunate time comes can and will deal will travesty. I love you and i hope that just the sheer number of people who know you or kayla or alana or not but still wrote here to show that they care, helps you through this terrible time.
You have my number. May god give you and your family strength and if not then good and strong friends.
Love, Dan
I saw Alana the day the ship came in from SST 2004. She smiled at me and said, "HI!" She didn't know me, but for some reason, I read her nametag, and I remembered her smile. Then, I saw that same smile in the paper this morning, and I was filled with sadness.
Please, everybody, keep them in your prayers......................--Maritime Barbie
hey, My name is Jon; and I'll be honest here, I was never really close to Alana. I met her around 3 years ago through my friend Rob and we all hung out in NYC for a day; She was really nice and open minded on many things, thus making her automatically cool. I was pretty shocked to learn of her demise, through an away message of all things... It really gave me a sense of mortality and more of a reason to live life to the fullest each day; it sounds horribly cheesy but it's true. I just wanted to say the funeral was touching and I hope the family is doing ok.
Rest in Peace for now Alana. I didn't know you or your boyfriend, but, I met some of your family. I can tell through them that you must of been one very special young lady and he a great young man. I'm so sorry that you had to leave so soon. I believe someday we will be together again in the afterlife. Love & Peace Gail
Bruce & Lee, we are thinking of you, and will be praying for you tomorrow. It seems like yesterday it happened doesn't it? We love you! Tom & Kathy
Tomorrow will be a day that will never be forgotten. After speaking to Seena tonight I just had to see the pictures again. How beautiful and full of spirit she was. I hope that the wonderful memories you have will give you the strength you need. My love and prayers are with all of you. Elaine
8-11-05 One year later, but the pain and the feelings of disbelief are still so strong. It is hard to imagine one year has even passed. Time DOESN’T heal all wounds. This past year didn’t even begin to diminish the amount of sadness that is within us all. I really do not understand where you, the Berenson family, is pulling your strength from, but I can only hope and pray that you can continue to be strong and be there for each other. Wish there was more that I could do. Love, Tina and the Kornreich family
I've been friends with Alana since we were the same height (I'm now 5'9"). I remember my first day of Hebrew School with her. I was in 3rd grade, Alana was in 4th. I was a chubby, shy little kid and a little apprehensive about this whole Hebrew school thing. Dalit, the teacher, took my hand and walked me over to the corner, by the window, in that classroom next to the principal's office (startling how this comes back so vividly), where this other little girl was sitting in a class of little boys. I remember Dalit saying "Rita, this is Alana. She's gonna be your new friend." And I remember Alana smiling shyly and saying hi... We've been friends since. Through all the years, through spending my school vacations at the Berenson's because I always wanted a million brothers and sisters and cousins, to Jew camp, to getting into trouble that Alana's mom didn't care about but my mom would've had my head if she knew, to all the dances that my dad never quite figured out how to get to, to all the boys (I remember first hearing about Joe and teasing her about him, as usual), to making plans to hang out one last time before I had to go back to school last August. Alana was my oldest friend and one of my best, R.I.P. homeslice -Rita
Well i know Max and he is a great kid and i am very sorry for your loss and so is my family my brother went to school with alana and we are very sorry for your family's loss -maderas
Hello, my name is Ryan Meltzer, and I knew Alana only when we were very young. My family used to go over all the time when my mother still owned the first floor, and I can only recall happy memories whenever I went over and interacted with the locals. I wish I could have gotten to know Alana better, and I'm now very upset that I hadn't taken the time to long ago. I believe I speak for my family when I wish you all strength in dealing with what happened. I still remember my time with your family when I was young, and I will hold onto these memories forever.
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